Looking for a Job is Like a Day at
the Beach!
By Trish Pratt
Those who at one time or another have been
laid off from a job and found themselves looking
for a new one know that sometimes the pressure
and uncertainty of these times can leave you
feeling unsupported in your need for confidence
and security.
At a time when your ability to present your
skills, experience and other positive traits
is being called upon, you may wonder where
your confidence and poise are hiding. And
if the situation isn't difficult enough, as
time wanes, you may find yourself feeling
greater pressure and less certain of your
qualifications in a fast-changing business
world.
The pressing need for income and the
personal "disconnect" that often
accompanies the situation doesn't feel
good. More importantly, perceiving the
job search process as a struggle or challenge
probably doesn't support you in bringing
your best energy, clarity or enthusiasm
that are needed to create your greatest
success. After all, attitude, if not everything,
shows up loudly and clearly at each interview.
It's what shows through not only between
each sentence you speak, but also between
each word as well. It's your confidence
and attitude that create the greatest
impression with an interviewer.
But, as I always remind clients, these
times of challenge are also perfect opportunities
for practicing a different way of bringing
yourself to your career - for getting
clear and connected to your strengths
and bringing these strengths "full
on" into your life.
Afterall, when you are connected, you
are unstoppable! So what can you do to
stay connected and avoid sliding down
into the valley of disconnect?
Here's a suggestion.
Why not look at the job search process
as simply a day at the beach? Embrace
the opportunity to turn what may seem
a struggle into an energizing and positive
experience!
Feel the warmth of the sun. Take stock
of your strengths, skills sets, interests
and experience. Connect with the positive
feeling of these assets and bring this
connection to all job conversations.
Breathe in the fresh air. Get clear and
connected to your values and your most
powerful sense of what you bring to the
world. It's not about just thinking it.
It's about "connecting" to these
feelings.
Know that you have found the perfect beach
and are exactly where you want to be.
Trust yourself and know that every experience
has something wonderful to teach you.
Look out to the horizon - to the beautiful
day that surrounds you. Write a vision
- a description in present tense of what
you know you want to happen. Don't be
concerned if you don't know all the details
right now. Write about the pieces you
do know (i.e., the level of satisfaction
you want to feel, or maybe the type of
work you will be doing, how the pay will
feel, the commute, etc.).
Basque in the feeling of contentment.
Read and imagine this vision three times
each day. Feed your mind the picture that
anchors and supports you in claiming your
happiness.
Find your best spot for creating your
day at the beach (i.e. on a towel in the
sun, splashing in the ocean waves, or
in a lounge chair under an umbrella).
Choose methods and strategies that feel
right to you.
Network with friends - Call three friends
or associates in the industry and ask
if they know of a great job connection
for you. Then ask for three names of people
they know who might be good contacts for
you.
Check on-line job boards. A simple on-line
search on "jobs" or "job
search" or websites such as www.monster.com
can be a great start.
Check newspapers and trade journals for
job listings. Along with pointing you
to places to send your resume, they sometimes
offer great networking contacts.
Make your life your own. Enjoy each moment.
And bring the best of YOU to your job
search.
Trish Pratt is a certified professional
coach and consultant who helps people
breakthrough their limiting patterns and
beliefs. As a vision and pattern expert,
she inspires, educates and empowers clients
to take their careers, businesses and
lives to higher levels of satisfaction.
Visit http://www.MomentumCoaching.com
to learn more about creating breakthroughs
in your career.
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