Plan a Date To
Go Places and Do Things You Enjoy
By Dr. Jackie Black
When you plan a date, plan to participate
in interests and activities that you enjoy.
Invite someone into your life. Be willing
to let the people you date experience you,
in the places in which you are the most comfortable
doing the things that you most love to do.
Dates are a time to create opportunities
to do the things you most enjoy. On dates,
listen carefully to your inner voice(s) and
to the person you are with. Experience the
other person and who he or she is in their
heart and soul.
If you enjoy good food, explore interesting
restaurants and out-of-the-way eateries
that ignite your enjoyment and share them
with new people.
If you are moved by things of beauty,
make a list of beautiful places and interesting
buildings in your area to visit on a date.
If you want to attract passion you must
be passionate!
If you are a patron of the arts frequent
your local art galleries, community theatres
and musician hang-outs. Most communities
have art festivals, art walks, craft shows;
small galleries have "meet the artist
nights" with great munchies and they are
usually free; high schools and colleges
often have musical and theatrical productions
that rival the pros.
If you love to walk or hike, take some
time and mark out some city walks to take
just as if you were a tourist getting
to know your city. Or grab a book on local
hiking trails and keep it handy.
You get the idea!
Remember: Dating is the time that you
are checking out the one you are dating.
You are observing, listening, and getting
a sense of who he or she is. Not visa
versa!!
Be actively engaged in the life that
you love, and you will more readily attract
the love of your life!
Remember, only YOU can make it happen!
Copyright Dr. Jackie Black 1999-2005
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