How To Attract Men: Five Secrets For Women To Know
By Tonja Weimer
Why do some women always have men pursuing
them, no matter what their age? I have a friend
who is 74 who continually has interesting
successful men asking her out. When I grow
up, I want to be like her. She has sparkle.
She has charm. She is a man magnet.
Recently, I asked a popular man magnet
what some of her strategies were for attracting
men, and research substantiates many of
her points. Here are five secret tips
to help you attract the man you want:
* Stand in the middle of the room.
Whenever you go to a party, try standing
in the center of the room. (Don't hunch
your shoulders, slouch, or wear a pair
of shoes that hurt your feet so much you
can't stand to stand.) Move around a little,
talk with people near you, but if you
want to be in a position to choose who
you want to meet, never sit down. Stand
smack dab in the middle of the crowd.
When you see someone interesting, move
near them--gracefully-- and start a conversation.
* Stand at the corners of the bar.
If you are at a bar, pub, or nightclub,
staying at the corners of the bar is a
good position. It's easier to meet people
there. Bartenders tend to talk to the
people at the corners also. The worst
place to be seen is hanging out near the
wall or sitting at a table or booth with
other people. You are more difficult to
approach if you are in a huddle with others.
Go places with friends, but break away
from them periodically and talk to people
on your own.
* Look your best.
This may sound too obvious, but you never
know where or when you are going to meet
someone. Never go out of the house without
looking your best. Even if you are headed
to the gym or a run around the block,
put on some lipstick and comb your hair.
Know what colors you look good in, and
wear attractive clothes in your best shades.
Men are attracted to pink-peach. That
color is flattering to most skin tones.
People are also attracted to you when
you are wearing the color(s) of your eyes.
(You have multiple colors in your eyes--choose
clothes that include one of those colors.)
* Be aware of your body language.
Body language is everything. Smile a
lot, look people in the eyes, and when
you see someone you are interested in,
tilt your head, drop your eyes, and then
look back at him. This may sound contrived,
but it helps to know what subliminal messages
are being sent by your actions. Apparently,
giving your hair a slight flip is also
an attraction signal, as well as stroking
the inside of your arm or your neck. If
a man is standing across the room, this
is one way to let him know that you would
be interested in talking to him.
* What not to do.
Attractive women know not to: talk about
themselves non-stop, fold their arms,
chew gum, pick at their nails, jiggle
their foot, or crunch ice. All of this
behavior suggests anxiety, frustration,
or poor manners. Also--don't talk about
your Ex. That is a major turn off.
When you go out and see attractive single
men you want to meet, practice the above
five secrets. Being a man magnet simply
means that you are in control of the outcome
of your evening, your week, and your life.
Enjoy the adventure!
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